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personals singles What to say when you meet someone. Have you ever been out in public and you seen someone you really like to meet but have been too afraid to go up and talk to that person? Then you get home and you feel like kicking yourself because you did not say anything to that person. A lot of people are uncomfortable talking to strangers. But if you are single and you want to meet people, then this is something you must do. When you are out in public, and you see an opportunity to meet someone, you must take that opportunity. You will not have that opportunity again. Also when going social events like parties, festivals, concerts, or just being set up with a blind date, you must be able to talk and meet with strangers. Also, being comfortable talking to strangers will help in your everyday life. The way you can get comfortable talking to strangers is practice. Here is a good way get started: When you go to a business, especially stores, try making small talk with the employees. This includes sales people, cashiers, mechanics, service managers, or any employees of the business. Here are some things to say: How is your day going? How are you doing today? Are you working hard? The weather sure is cold outside. Are you very busy today? Also, everybody loves a sincere compliment. You can say: Your hair sure does look nice or that's a nice shirt you have on. You will be surprised about the positive responses you will get. Do not forget the one thing that is so important when meeting someone new: Your smile. When you smile most people will respond very favorably. Your smile is so important when meeting someone. It shows that person you are happy to meet them. Also,
it makes the person feel a lot more relaxed when they are talking to you. Also, you should learn to how to keep the conversation going after you meet someone. You may want to try reading some books on improving your social skills. This is an important area. If you cannot get a conversation going, you may have a tough time getting dates. You have to have some social skills when it comes to dating. You
have to be able to go up to people, start a conversation, and keep the conversation going. Try to improve in this area. Having good social skills will help you tremendously, when it comes to dating. Once you feel more confident talking to people, then it is time to start meeting people. One thing to keep in mind, if you see someone you like, look to see if they have a wedding ring before you go up talk to them. Nothing is worse than going up to someone and trying to meet them and then looking down and finding they have a wedding ring. There are many approaches you can use to meet people. The first thing you can try,
which is probably the easiest and the best way, is to walk by, smile, and say "hi". That is it. This is a very effective way to meet people. The way they respond back will tell you if they are interested or not.
Another way is trying to establish eye contact. Getting eye contact means you look over at someone, they look back, and you hold their glance for a few seconds. So give a couple of quick glances to see if they respond. This may take some time. If you do get eye contact and they hold their glance a little longer than usual, this may be a good sign that they could be interested. Trying to figure out if someone is interested by eye contact does take some practice. If you can get eye contact, then this will make it easier to walk over, smile, and say, "how are you doing?" If they respond positively then try to start a conversation.
you can also just go up to someone and talk to them. Once you do it couple times, it's not that big of a deal. The worse thing that can happen is that they are not interested. Once you face that fear of going up to someone you will feel a lot better. All you are trying to do is just get a conversation started. You will be surprised how well people respond when you are just trying to start a conversation. Most people are usually pretty nice and will respond in a positive way. You are just trying to meet this person. So it can be about anything. To get the conversation started, see if you can find a sincere compliment to give them. People love getting a compliments. If for some reason they do not respond, then you still may have made someone's day by giving him or her compliment. Here are some things you can say: You have pretty hair, you are an attractive person, you have pretty eyes or smile, or I like that shirt, shoes, or pants. The key to giving someone a compliment is being sincere. People will appreciate it more if it is an honest compliment. If you cannot find a compliment to give, then think about where you are. Are you in a
grocery or retail store, party, concert, festival, work luncheon or a getting together with friends? Is there something in the surroundings you can use to start a conversation? If you are at a festival or concert you can say: This sure is a great concert. Do you know much about the band? This festival sure has good food. If you are at a party, then ask if they know the host. Or say: this sure is a good party. If you are at a work
luncheon, ask them what type of work do they do? If you are in a store ask:. Are you getting all your shopping done? Do you know where this item is? It sure is crowded/pretty empty in here. There are a lot of good sales going on. This place always has a good food or items. Do you know of a good wine to get?
If you cannot think of an opening line, then just try an honest approach say:. I saw you standing over here and I found you attractive and just wanted to meet you. Sometimes this is the best approach. Most people appreciate honesty. Once you given the opening line, you need to keep the conversation going. Try looking around, for a subject to talk about. If you are at a concert or festival then continue talking about what is going on there. If you are at a party, then you can talk about the people there or how you
met them. Ask what type of work they do. Talk about current events. People love to talk about themselves, so turn the conversation around so they can talk about himself or herself. Try to find out what are their interests or talk about their kids. You will find how happy they will become after they have talked about themselves. After a few minute of conversation, you will be able to tell if the person is interested or not. It can be difficult sometimes trying to read people. A lot are people are shy or are just not comfortable talking to new people. If you are not sure if the person is interested then you can do a couple of things.
One is to be honest and tell them that you thought they were someone you wanted to meet and see what they have to say. The person may be interested in talking to you but may feel uncomfortable. A lot of times people will just say that they enjoy talking to you, but are not used to talking to strangers. This way there no guessing by either person, what is going on? The other thing you can do instead of asking the person if they are interested in you, is to tell them where they could run into you again. Tell them you work out at the local gym